To the Editor:
October marks Domestic Violence Awareness Month, a time when we, as a society, must reflect on the pervasive and insidious nature of domestic violence, and strengthen our commitment to supporting victims and advocating for change. Domestic violence transcends all demographics — affecting individuals regardless of age, gender, socioeconomic status, or ethnicity. Yet, too often, it remains hidden behind closed doors, shrouded in shame and silence.
Domestic Violence Awareness Month provides an opportunity for us all to reflect on the importance of education, outreach, and intervention. We need to ensure that survivors know they are not alone, and that there are resources and services available to help them escape abusive situations. Shelters, hotlines, support groups, and legal advocacy services, like those offered by Rape & Abuse Crisis Service (RACS) are essential lifelines. In 2023, RACS provided more than 18,000 services to more than 1,300 survivors in Central Missouri. Of those, more than 80% included families where children witnessed the abuse or were also victimized by the violence in the home. Since 1980 RACS has been a resource for survivors and their children. A safe place to stay when it wasn’t safe for them to stay at home. Yet, despite all of the direct service efforts locally and at the state level, Missouri ranks third in the nation for the number of domestic violence assaults that occur and sixth in the nation for the number of domestic violence homicides.
We must commit to preventing violence before it starts. This means fostering a culture of respect and non- violence in our homes, schools, and workplaces. Moreover, we must continue to challenge the cultural norms and attitudes that enable abuse. Domestic violence is not just a private matter; it is a public health crisis. We must protect survivors and hold perpetrators accountable. Community members can play an active role by educating themselves, supporting local organizations like RACS with their time, talents, and/or financial resources, and ensuring that survivors are treated with empathy and care, rather than judgment.
Domestic violence is not a private issue; it affects us all. During this month of awareness, let’s commit to standing together against abuse, offering support to those who need it, and working to create a safer and more compassionate society for everyone.
Angela Hirsch, executive director, Rape and Abuse Crisis Service
